“I always try to have daters avoid negativity at all costs,” De Alto told TODAY.

Instead of saying “Don’t contact me if you’re a player,” try turning the statement into something more positive, such as “I’m not looking to get married tomorrow, but I am looking for something substantial,” she suggested.

You deserve a fcking phone call.” ― Greg Behrendt “I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. Ron made a noise that might have indicated jubilation or disgust, it was hard to tell."Because she was crying," Harry continued heavily."Oh," said Ron, his smile faded slightly. ""Dunno," said Harry, who hadn't considered this, and immediately felt rather worried.

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I've learned there are different seasons in family life.

Don’t be afraid to be clear about your desires, De Alto said, but avoid harsh words and try to add a positive spin.

So what leads people to include those negative statements on their profile in the first place? Often, those people have been through disappointment or heartbreak, and are using that negativity as a defense mechanism.

But God had much more in mind with romance than orgasms or even procreation, and so should we. When people in the world are expecting less and less of each other in dating, God isn’t.

So, as singles we have to work harder in our not-yet-married relationships to preserve what marriage ought to picture and provide.Praise God for the 5 o'clock hour when my husband, Greg, clocks out of his full-time job to share in the family fun!Although I am learning this will only last for a season in our married life, I understand Greg and I need to make an intentional effort to step away from the steering wheel, grocery cart, laptop and laundry room to connect with each other.“Most normal, balanced people are turned off by negativity.The only ones you’re going to get back are people that aren’t turned off.” Relationship coach Rachel De Alto, one of the experts on Lifetime’s "Married at First Sight," agreed.Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you.