Stories about the number of Black women who are single have made headlines for years, and many of us are tired of hearing them.But the reality often hits home during the holidays, when discussing your love life becomes an appetizer at meals with the family.

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I’ve heard absurd things in conversation like black women are too opinionated and all they want to do is argue.

That statement is pure trash because I know plenty of European, Asian and Hispanic women that are not submissive and won’t put up with disrespect either. Let's rewind a little and let me clarify the specific group of black men I am referring to. I'm talking about a black man that say’s he would never date a black woman because she’s aggressive, independent, angry, disrespectful, too educated and have strong personalities.

If men only use your words and an absence of experience with a black woman to form and opinion about African American women we’d have a ton of little black queens thinking they are not good enough to be loved by someone else, not even black boys.

Black women are more than the one awful experience you had in a past relationship.

Imagine one day seeing your black queen with a cute pixie style.

But then the next week, she's rocking Marley twists.So it's no wonder we're thrilled for Black women who have found love—no matter the ethnicity of their partner.Though Black men are still twice as likely as Black women to date outside their race, it seems more and more of us are becoming open to dating beyond the color line.White guys will never love you like black guys, they would say.I resented those comments, believing that my love should not be bound to the color of my skin or anyone else’s.It can be a bit alarming, just because of how different the hair quality is.