It’s important that you determine as early as possible if the new guy you’ve met is a Player.

You’d be amazed at the sheer number of women out the there who become obsessed with answering the age old question, “How do you get a shy guy to come out of his shell?

” Some women even go as far as trying to figure out how to ask a shy guy out in the first place.

This creates a conflict with many white men, especially those from my generation (age 47) or older.

It comes from a mix of racial AND gender stereotyping.

However, media images and the lack of interracial socializing have led to a situation where the distinct minority of white men can say that they truly know a Black woman.

Even fewer can say with conviction that they trust a Black woman in either a business or personal relationship.

To men, it’s riddled over with excuses: I’m short, broke, ugly or in this specific case… The truth is, even the quietest of warriors can devise a plan to crush an entire army.

Any man who has ever let the fear of defeat destroy his ability to take action has never claimed the title of victor. However, as you read this guide, you’re going to find a handful of things that surprise you.

Question: Do all white men think all Black women are hoochie mama, welfare, child bearing, uneducated b******?