Look through cyber history or phone bills and credit cards bills to detect any difference in your partner and get proof of it. People who have affairs are not a new phenomenon but definitely on the rise.

The approximate number in the limelight who broke up this year in 2010 are close to 10 to 15 for sure, Tony Parker and Eva Longoria is the latest to be heard of breakups in Hollywood.

Another phenomenon faced by several ethnic communities is that many educated men marry outside of their community, race and religion.

They are not as bound by the ticking biological clock factor and can usually (not always) find a wife when they get serious about marriage.

Couples are given a certain time period to improve their relationship, without terminating the marriage.

If, during this period of separation, the couple can work their problems out they can resume their married life.

It seems impractical to sit around a foreign place and wait a few days in-between dates!

Before two people even consider beginning a long-distance courtship, we recommend that they clarify two points.Adherence to cultural norms and expectations, generational disparity and the neglect of the Islamic standard for the choice of partners are also hurdles single American Muslims face.There is an extraordinary number of very educated women in their thirties and above who have not found a spouse.The issues are as diverse as the American Muslim community scattered all over the country.Meeting venues and forums are few and this seems to be one major deterrent to suitable marriages.We mentioned it earlier and it bears repeating: stress is not always a bad thing.