Don’t appear like you a forcing the pace, nor come across as completely disinterested, find the middle path, and make sure that you are not doing these ten things that can make you look desperate and unwanted. Forsaking all your friends and being too available for him Just because you’ve met the man of your dreams, that doesn’t mean you should instantly drop all your friends.

If you can’t make a particular date, because you’d already arranged to go out with your friends, then tell him.

A relationship in which you find yourself on an emotional roller-coaster, one day confused, one day elated, but always lacking in direction.

The interesting thing about these kind of relationships, is that it’s so easy to recognize them in the lives of others… We deserve to be loved just as we are giving love, and in romantic relationships, this is how God intended it to be.

But in our own lives, we can’t seem to see them for ourselves. Two people who are putting in the same amount, and receiving even more… Two people, building, edifying, encouraging, and investing in one another.

I meet young men and women who are living a “desperate” life by the way they choose to act and interact with the opposite sex. Wait for that, because anything less is not worthy of the wait. Debra Fileta is a Professional Counselor, speaker, and author of True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life, 21 Days to Jump Start Your Love Life, and 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life – where she writes candidly about dating, relationships, and how to find true love. Check out my in-depth look from a Counselor’s perspective of the 10 Reasons He Hasn’t Asked You Out: And What You Can Do About It!

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Top Ten Signs Of A Desperate Man (30396 Views) 8 Qualities Of A Desperate Husband/boyfriend Snatcher / How I Refused Sex In Campus From A Desperate Young Girl / Ten Signs That A Man Needs To Be Cheated On (1) (2) (3) (4) In the dating world, a desperate man is one who is over-eager, anxious, presumptuous and willing to be with any woman to avoid being alone.

Women can spot desperation in a man from miles away, and if you suffer from it, you’ll never stand a chance at getting any girl.

There’s something really discouraging about being in a one-way relationship.

A relationship in which you are doing all the work, and putting in most of the effort.

The alpha males had the best food and the best shelter.