Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.Or are you a mature man looking to date a woman who is significantly younger than you?

So if you’re part of the male specie that prefers more mature “cougars” as their dating partner, look no further as we begin to explore deeper into this phenomena and throw in a few tips and techniques on how to date older women. Before anything else, it would be essential to answer the question probably bugging many people’s mind – why would anyone date older women in the first place?

For one thing, the centuries-old portrayal of single mature women as grumpy old maids living with cats and scaring the hell out of neighborhood every time they go out the front door is basically gone.

Take a look and then get out there and put it to use!

TOP TIPS FOR DATING OLDER WOMEN What the experts say as their top advice when meeting and dating older women: 1.

Take her out for dinner, ask her what she likes, where she wants to go, and follow through.

Anyone who’s used to “traditional” relationships (traditional in the sense that partners typically have the same age range) can’t help but ask how Ashton Kutcher could fall for Demi Moore or how Justin Timberlake’s back in Cameron Diaz’s arms once again.

“I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now.

(This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front.

There are some important differences, both large and small, that you need to know and we have enlisted a panel of 44 dating and relationship experts to help make you more successful!

If you read through the incredible advice below you are bound to pick up at least a few things that will improve your chances.

Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal. HER VALUES ARE NOT THE SAME AS A YOUNGER WOMAN Cheyenne Bostock profile CHEYENNE BOSTOCK – ASKCHEYB.