You may discover some habits of your spouse that might irritate you. When you are dating, it is likely that you concentrate more on the positive areas of your partner and ignore the negative ones.

However, as dating is different from marriage, it is not possible to ignore everything when you are together.

It’s a question that comes up occasionally within a singles ministry.

If you are seriously dating someone, how long should it be before you pop the question?

If the partners are well compatible, probably, they will be able to get along with each other after marriage. Why marry immediately when they can live together without it?

And most couples want to know if they fit together before getting married.

How much do we spend monthly, annually, in each category? Question #6: How much time will each of us spend at work, and during what hours? Question #9: Am I comfortable giving and receiving love sexually?

Question #4: What is our ultimate financial goal regarding annual income, and when do we anticipate achieving it? Question #5: What are our categories of expense (rent, clothing, insurance, travel)? Question #7: If one of us doesn't want to work, under what circumstances, if any, would that be okay? Are we comfortable with the other's level of ambition?

Once Upon a Time, in a younger, more innocent day, Love at First Sight was all the romantic setup the audience needed, especially in Disney Movies and early romantic movies.

But times have changed, and we now demand a more realistic build up for our on screen couples... It seems in your general 90-minute movie, audiences are pretty willing to accept that a couple will progress to the point of getting engaged, or even married, if not in real time, then over the course of a few weeks, tops.

Question #1: What percentage of our income are we prepared to spend to purchase and maintain our home on a monthly or annual basis?

Question #2: Who is responsible for keeping our house and yard cared for and organized?

Are we different in our needs for cleanliness and organization?