Perhaps your date wants a tall women with blonde hair. Many disabled people just give up, even though many singles are for dating with disabled.

Sometimes it comes in a “broken” container — one that goes about in a wheelchair or on crutches. “When people meet me, sometimes they say, ‘Oh my God, she’s disabled,’” says Ruotolo, who stands (with help from her constant companions, a pair of crutches) a little over four-foot-two in her Jimmy Choos — hence the title of her memoir, Unstoppable in Stilettos.

“But once we get to know each other, those feelings go away.” “I still have the same personality, the same bad sense of humor, the same love of trivia,” says Oliver, 38, who was paralyzed in a body-surfing accident when he was 21.

She now jets around the world as Director of Entertainment Promotions at Hearst Magazines.

After a crippling accident, it can be very tempting for a disabled person to seek out a knight in shining armor — someone who will care for, help, and bend over backward for him or her.

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